Adult sexual dynamics in persons with the history of sexual abuse


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Sexuality is most natural and healthy when it is part of an emotionally genuine relationship, not even as its central part but rather as an upgrade of the intimacy of two people who are mutually loyal, committed, loving and respectful. However, if an individual was sexually abused in childhood, they may have suffered the severest consequences of sexual abuse trauma in the area of sexuality, and their experience of sexuality will be completely different from those who were not sexually abused. The article first describes what children learn about sex if they have been sexually abused, as this experience is very much related to the most common behaviours and experiences in adult sexuality. Then we present a theoretical overview of research on sexuality in adults who suffered childhood sexual abuse. The theory will be supplemented and supported by the statements of individuals who have been attending a therapeutic group for the sexually abused in childhood for two years. The statements quoted in the article refer to the period prior to the therapeutic process. Clinical experience shows that, until the victim has resolved the trauma of sexual abuse, the dynamics between the offender and the victim during childhood abuse is most often very similar to the dynamics of the abused with their partner, even in their sexual life.


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Opublikowane : 2020-02-27


Repič Slavič, T. (2020). Adult sexual dynamics in persons with the history of sexual abuse. Family Forum, 9, 53-70. https://doi.org/10.25167/FF/1096

Tanja Repič Slavič  tanjarepic@gmail.com
University of Ljubljana, Faculty of Theology, Department of Marital and Family Therapy  Słowenia
http://orcid.org/0000-0002-1524-453X


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